"It takes a man to stand up for what he believes... Especially in a society where everything is supposed to be politically correct."
- Carlos Delgado
Making Ripples
By Robert Ringer
A few weeks ago, one of the readers of my e-letter sent me an "unsubscribe" e-mail that read:
"I am unsubscribing. I really enjoyed reading your letters, until you decided to bring your politics into it. I'm sorry, but I'm with the 70 percent of the country that disagrees with you. You are a very smart man and a gifted writer. I will take that with me. You can keep the rest." - Greg H.
I was kind of perplexed as to why Greg expressed a high regard for my writing but opted to cancel because he didn't like my "politics." I wondered how long he had been reading me, because anyone familiar with my work knows that my ideological beliefs run through virtually everything I write. Always have and always will. I wouldn't have it any other way.
I try to learn from every experience, whether it be positive or negative, and I certainly learned a lot from Greg's e-mail.
First, it reminded me once again just how rigidly divided we are as a society. When I use the word rigidly, I mean that not only are we divided in our thinking, we don't even want to hear what the other side has to say.
'Twas not always so. When I was growing up, before the coming of the PC Monster, people actually engaged in civil dialog and had civil disagreements. Today, however, the objective is to silence those who don't agree with one's point of view.
The second important point I mined from Greg's e-mail can be summed up in an old but all-too-true cliche: You can't please everyone. The problem with trying to please all the people all the time is that it turns you into a big chunk of mush disguised as a human being. No one hates you, but no one loves you either.
I've always felt that the saddest way to go through life would be to never even make a ripple. Whether it's Al Gore or George Bush, Michael Moore or Jerry Falwell, the Dalai Lama or Rupert Murdoch, they all have one thing in common: They make ripples. In fact, they make big ripples.
And so should you if you want to live life as opposed to just passing through on your way to the grave. When you get up every morning, the first thing you should do is ask yourself if you did anything yesterday to make a ripple. Even more important, ask yourself what you can do to make a ripple today.
All great achievements begin in the mind. Thinking about ripples leads to making ripples. Don't fear being different. Don't fear offending people who get their noses out of joint because they don't like what you say or do. Don't fear downside consequences to the point where you can't bring yourself to take action. Above all, don't fear making big ripples. Do things that no one has ever done before. Shock your competitors. Leapfrog over the pack.
The ever-quotable 17th century Jesuit priest Baltasar Gracian said it eloquently: "Have stomach for the large morsels of fortune.... Great accomplishments are built on great capacity.... There are many who cannot enjoy highly seasoned dishes because of their natural limitations, neither having been born to, or having been accustomed to, such high fare."
I guess it's true that some people simply don't have the stomach to think big thoughts, let alone take big actions. The ultimate nightmare for such people is waking up some fine morning only to discover that they're going in the opposite direction from where the mainstream is headed. To people with a lemming mentality, acceptance is more important than money, dignity, or purpose. Which is unfortunate, because success and the desire for acceptance are mutually exclusive objectives.
In my business, I've become convinced that the sooner a writer learns this, the sooner he is in a position to tap into his true genius. The great 20th century novelist E. B. White put it succinctly when he said, "The whole duty of a writer is to please and satisfy himself, and the true writer always plays to an audience of one."
From time to time, a reader will call me to task for being too "touchy-feely" in some article I've written. And when I go back and reread the offending article, I almost always end up agreeing with him. Touchy-feely doesn't make ripples... and it doesn't result in an avid readership.
So when ex-loyal reader Greg complains about my daring to show my "politics," it sends a very different signal than a complaint about my being too touchy-feely. On the contrary, it tells me that I'm on the right track. Why? Because if you strive to be loved by everyone, you will end up being loved by no one.
Remember this well: Whatever your occupation, if you say or do something that gets half the world angry - or at least indignant - the other half is almost certain to love you. And guess what? You don't need half the people in the world loving you in order to get everything you want in life. One-tenth of one percent will do just fine, thank you.
______________________________
Open Your Mind to New Ideas
By Michael Masterson
I try to keep my mind open to new ideas - even when they are expressed as criticism or when they come from someone who knows much less about the subject than I do, and even when I'm sure the comment is dead wrong.
My reason for staying open is this: The idea can't possibly hurt me, and there's a chance it can help me. So why not listen?
Are you open to new ideas? Do you encourage suggestions? Do you thank people for criticism? Do your employees, friends, and colleagues feel comfortable telling you exactly what they think about what you are doing?
Good ideas - ideas that can change your life - are all around you. The question is: Are you paying attention?
Most people go through their careers with blinders on. There is only a very narrow channel of information they are willing to tune into. Everything else is tuned out. Sometimes, we shut our minds because we don't want to think that what we are doing now could stand any improvement. Sometimes, we close up because we are stressed or distracted.
You can spend $150 on a pair of shoes, $1,500 on a new air-conditioner, or $75,000 on a Mercedes - and that may improve the quality of your life for a little while. (Although it is highly unlikely that it will improve by as much as you paid.) A single good idea, though, can make you healthier, wealthier, and/or happier - and not just for a little while but for the rest of your life.
______________________________
Fat, Sick, and Underpaid Is No Way to Go Through Life
By Craig Ballantyne
What's worse: Getting paid less because you are overweight? Or not getting paid at all because you're sick as a result of being overweight and can't make it into the office? Unfortunately, many people have to deal with one or both of these problems every day.
A European study, published in the journal Obesity, found that being overweight or obese is an accurate predictor of the number of sick days an employee will take. Obese individuals - even young men and women - were found to have more sickness-related absences from work than their normal-weight colleagues. Chronic obesity also resulted in the longest sick leaves, particularly in men.
This gives you one more good reason to control your weight with exercise and nutrition. And I truly believe that nutrition, even more than exercise, is the most important factor in terms of fat loss and improving your health.
It's easy to eat for fat loss and good health:
. Stick to whole, natural foods, avoiding any processed foods that come in a bag or a box.
. Eat at least five servings of fruits and vegetables per day.
. Eat healthy fats, found in almonds, walnuts, fish, grass-fed beef, and olive oil.
. Substitute green tea and water for sodas, juices, and other high-calorie beverages.
Following these simple guidelines will help keep you lean and healthy - and help you avoid missing workdays due to weight-related illness.
[Ed. Note: Craig Ballantyne is an expert consultant for Men's Health magazine.]
______________________________
It's Good to Know: Cleaning Out the Pantry
How long will a jar of mayonnaise last? If it's sealed, it will last indefinitely, but the color and flavor of an opened jar in the refrigerator will be affected three months from its "purchase by" date. Maple syrup lasts about a year, while honey never expires. A refrigerated bottle of salad dressing shouldn't be used past nine months, while olive oil is good up to two years from the manufactured date. Tabasco sauce will last five years if stored in a cool, dry place, but the quality of an opened bottle of soy sauce will start deteriorating after three months.
(Source: Real Simple)
______________________________
Word to the Wise: Tergiversation
"Tergiversation" (tur-jiv-ur-SAY-shun) - from the Latin for "to turn back" - is the act of (1) practicing evasion or (2) abandoning a cause.
Example (as used by Michael Norman in The New York Times): "Like most writers, I have always championed thrift.... Not long ago, however, I experienced an extraordinary tergiversation. Now I'm an ally of excess, a proponent of redundancy."
Michael Masterson
__________________________________________________
These articles appear courtesy of Early to Rise [Issue #2085, 07-04-07], the Internet's most popular health, wealth, and success e-zine. For a complimentary subscription, visit http://www.earlytorise.com/.
- Carlos Delgado
Making Ripples
By Robert Ringer
A few weeks ago, one of the readers of my e-letter sent me an "unsubscribe" e-mail that read:
"I am unsubscribing. I really enjoyed reading your letters, until you decided to bring your politics into it. I'm sorry, but I'm with the 70 percent of the country that disagrees with you. You are a very smart man and a gifted writer. I will take that with me. You can keep the rest." - Greg H.
I was kind of perplexed as to why Greg expressed a high regard for my writing but opted to cancel because he didn't like my "politics." I wondered how long he had been reading me, because anyone familiar with my work knows that my ideological beliefs run through virtually everything I write. Always have and always will. I wouldn't have it any other way.
I try to learn from every experience, whether it be positive or negative, and I certainly learned a lot from Greg's e-mail.
First, it reminded me once again just how rigidly divided we are as a society. When I use the word rigidly, I mean that not only are we divided in our thinking, we don't even want to hear what the other side has to say.
'Twas not always so. When I was growing up, before the coming of the PC Monster, people actually engaged in civil dialog and had civil disagreements. Today, however, the objective is to silence those who don't agree with one's point of view.
The second important point I mined from Greg's e-mail can be summed up in an old but all-too-true cliche: You can't please everyone. The problem with trying to please all the people all the time is that it turns you into a big chunk of mush disguised as a human being. No one hates you, but no one loves you either.
I've always felt that the saddest way to go through life would be to never even make a ripple. Whether it's Al Gore or George Bush, Michael Moore or Jerry Falwell, the Dalai Lama or Rupert Murdoch, they all have one thing in common: They make ripples. In fact, they make big ripples.
And so should you if you want to live life as opposed to just passing through on your way to the grave. When you get up every morning, the first thing you should do is ask yourself if you did anything yesterday to make a ripple. Even more important, ask yourself what you can do to make a ripple today.
All great achievements begin in the mind. Thinking about ripples leads to making ripples. Don't fear being different. Don't fear offending people who get their noses out of joint because they don't like what you say or do. Don't fear downside consequences to the point where you can't bring yourself to take action. Above all, don't fear making big ripples. Do things that no one has ever done before. Shock your competitors. Leapfrog over the pack.
The ever-quotable 17th century Jesuit priest Baltasar Gracian said it eloquently: "Have stomach for the large morsels of fortune.... Great accomplishments are built on great capacity.... There are many who cannot enjoy highly seasoned dishes because of their natural limitations, neither having been born to, or having been accustomed to, such high fare."
I guess it's true that some people simply don't have the stomach to think big thoughts, let alone take big actions. The ultimate nightmare for such people is waking up some fine morning only to discover that they're going in the opposite direction from where the mainstream is headed. To people with a lemming mentality, acceptance is more important than money, dignity, or purpose. Which is unfortunate, because success and the desire for acceptance are mutually exclusive objectives.
In my business, I've become convinced that the sooner a writer learns this, the sooner he is in a position to tap into his true genius. The great 20th century novelist E. B. White put it succinctly when he said, "The whole duty of a writer is to please and satisfy himself, and the true writer always plays to an audience of one."
From time to time, a reader will call me to task for being too "touchy-feely" in some article I've written. And when I go back and reread the offending article, I almost always end up agreeing with him. Touchy-feely doesn't make ripples... and it doesn't result in an avid readership.
So when ex-loyal reader Greg complains about my daring to show my "politics," it sends a very different signal than a complaint about my being too touchy-feely. On the contrary, it tells me that I'm on the right track. Why? Because if you strive to be loved by everyone, you will end up being loved by no one.
Remember this well: Whatever your occupation, if you say or do something that gets half the world angry - or at least indignant - the other half is almost certain to love you. And guess what? You don't need half the people in the world loving you in order to get everything you want in life. One-tenth of one percent will do just fine, thank you.
______________________________
Open Your Mind to New Ideas
By Michael Masterson
I try to keep my mind open to new ideas - even when they are expressed as criticism or when they come from someone who knows much less about the subject than I do, and even when I'm sure the comment is dead wrong.
My reason for staying open is this: The idea can't possibly hurt me, and there's a chance it can help me. So why not listen?
Are you open to new ideas? Do you encourage suggestions? Do you thank people for criticism? Do your employees, friends, and colleagues feel comfortable telling you exactly what they think about what you are doing?
Good ideas - ideas that can change your life - are all around you. The question is: Are you paying attention?
Most people go through their careers with blinders on. There is only a very narrow channel of information they are willing to tune into. Everything else is tuned out. Sometimes, we shut our minds because we don't want to think that what we are doing now could stand any improvement. Sometimes, we close up because we are stressed or distracted.
You can spend $150 on a pair of shoes, $1,500 on a new air-conditioner, or $75,000 on a Mercedes - and that may improve the quality of your life for a little while. (Although it is highly unlikely that it will improve by as much as you paid.) A single good idea, though, can make you healthier, wealthier, and/or happier - and not just for a little while but for the rest of your life.
______________________________
Fat, Sick, and Underpaid Is No Way to Go Through Life
By Craig Ballantyne
What's worse: Getting paid less because you are overweight? Or not getting paid at all because you're sick as a result of being overweight and can't make it into the office? Unfortunately, many people have to deal with one or both of these problems every day.
A European study, published in the journal Obesity, found that being overweight or obese is an accurate predictor of the number of sick days an employee will take. Obese individuals - even young men and women - were found to have more sickness-related absences from work than their normal-weight colleagues. Chronic obesity also resulted in the longest sick leaves, particularly in men.
This gives you one more good reason to control your weight with exercise and nutrition. And I truly believe that nutrition, even more than exercise, is the most important factor in terms of fat loss and improving your health.
It's easy to eat for fat loss and good health:
. Stick to whole, natural foods, avoiding any processed foods that come in a bag or a box.
. Eat at least five servings of fruits and vegetables per day.
. Eat healthy fats, found in almonds, walnuts, fish, grass-fed beef, and olive oil.
. Substitute green tea and water for sodas, juices, and other high-calorie beverages.
Following these simple guidelines will help keep you lean and healthy - and help you avoid missing workdays due to weight-related illness.
[Ed. Note: Craig Ballantyne is an expert consultant for Men's Health magazine.]
______________________________
It's Good to Know: Cleaning Out the Pantry
How long will a jar of mayonnaise last? If it's sealed, it will last indefinitely, but the color and flavor of an opened jar in the refrigerator will be affected three months from its "purchase by" date. Maple syrup lasts about a year, while honey never expires. A refrigerated bottle of salad dressing shouldn't be used past nine months, while olive oil is good up to two years from the manufactured date. Tabasco sauce will last five years if stored in a cool, dry place, but the quality of an opened bottle of soy sauce will start deteriorating after three months.
(Source: Real Simple)
______________________________
Word to the Wise: Tergiversation
"Tergiversation" (tur-jiv-ur-SAY-shun) - from the Latin for "to turn back" - is the act of (1) practicing evasion or (2) abandoning a cause.
Example (as used by Michael Norman in The New York Times): "Like most writers, I have always championed thrift.... Not long ago, however, I experienced an extraordinary tergiversation. Now I'm an ally of excess, a proponent of redundancy."
Michael Masterson
__________________________________________________
These articles appear courtesy of Early to Rise [Issue #2085, 07-04-07], the Internet's most popular health, wealth, and success e-zine. For a complimentary subscription, visit http://www.earlytorise.com/.
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